So instead of cards, I encourage books! Write your little message in the front page of the book. We did this at our baby shower by sending out the invite with the request “Instead of cards, please consider getting a book to help start Monster’s library”. It was great! Our friends and family were very supportive and we received over 50 books, easily. What is more, for loved ones who were tight on money, instead of wasting cash on a card, they could spend just a tiny bit more and get a book.